This is a re-print of the most popular Facebook Page post on the LoBiondo Page, by far. I wrote this and posted is on the LoBiondo fb page for my father's birthday, last year. It has been shared all over the country. We are blessed to be celebrating his birthday together again this year. Back by popular demand, here is the famous "Lolo Story":
HAPPY BIRTHDAY to the
first man I loved, my first and forever hero, and the most dependable, loyal,
honest, charming, and loving man I have ever or will ever know, my dad, Mariano
Muyot, known to everyone simply as "Lolo" (Tagalog for “Grandpa”).
Lolo was born in Manila, the Philippines on December 26, 1935. His father was
an optometrist, who had a large, beautiful home and office in the beautifultropical city of Manila. His mother a beautiful woman, a stay
at home mom to him and his 5 much older brothers, they were all teenagers when
he was born.
When WWII came to the Philippines, the Filipino army was probably one of
the most under-prepared armies in the world at the time. Nonetheless, all 5 of
my uncles volunteered and, because they were all educated, went in as officers.
When my father was 7 years old, Japanese soldiers came to Lolo's beautiful
house to interrogate his father, since my uncles were helping the U.S. Army
learn to be "guerillas," the Japnese soldiers wanted to know where
the US guerilla soldiers were. My uncle wouldn't give up their locations. He
was beaten in front of my father and they smashed his precious eye-glass cases.
The soldiers did not beat my grandmother but they slapped her in front of my
father, which is something he will never forget. They burned down my father's
house and took my grandfather to a concentration camp with other P.O.W.'s,
including Filipino and US soldiers.
My father witnessed many atrocities and went from being an affluent
doctor's son to being homeless. He never had a toy growing up. He looked in the
sky and saw "dogfights" between US and Japanese warplanes daily. If
you know history, you know that General Douglas MacArthur is personally
responsible for saving the Philippines and the US soldiers left behind on that
island nation. Truman was ready to abandon the nation and the American troops,
but MacArthur said, "I shall return," to the Filipino people he loved
so much and he meant it. Defying his own Commander-in-Chief and sabotaging his
own career, MacArthur did come back, he did liberate the Philippines and the
remaining American troops. My grandfather crawled home from the concentration
camp, emaciated, he looked at the faces of his wife and children and moments
later, died in my grandmother's arms. The "G.I.'s", the American
soldiers who liberated the Philippines, were so good to the Filipino children
they gave their own C-rations to the kids, including my dad.
Lolo vowed then and there to do something to re-pay the Americans. In
1963, he joined the U.S. Navy at Subic Bay Naval Base, initially as a foreign
citizen. He served for 7 years. After serving in the Gulf of Tonkin, the only
battle of Vietnam to be considered part of a "war" (Congress briefly
declared war, then revoked it, hence Vietnam was actually a
"conflict" although 56,000 soldiers and sailors died), he became a US
Citizen under the provision whereby a foreign citizen who serves in the U.S.
military during wartime is eligible for US citizenship. In between, he met an
Irish American gal from Beacon, NY named Mary McCaffrey. They dated for a few weeks
and got married in San Diego, CA during shore leave on April 4, 1964. They just
celebrated their 49th wedding anniversary.
I was born July 23, 1965 while my dad was on a ship in Vietnam. My
brother was born December 20, 1967. After leaving the Navy, my dad worked a
full career at IBM, from which he retired years ago.
He had colon cancer in
2001 but beat it. He was in Sloan Kettering Memorial Hospital on 9/11 when the
planes hit. The nurses and doctors couldn't wait to meet me and tell me how all
the patients were so scared but my father, who had just had surgery days ago,
walked around the hospital wheeling his IV with him, comforting the patients,
especially the younger ones, saying he had faced death several times before,
and not to be afraid, the worst thing to do if you're going to die is to be in
a state of panic, to put themselves in a state of peace and everything would be
all right. They say he brought peace to an otherwise panicked hospital. I could
go on and on about my dad. All I'm going to say is I was one lucky little girl,
you can only imagine what it was like to be Daddy's little girl. Not that we
had a lot of money, we didn't, but I always knew I was loved, loved, loved. HAPPY
BIRTHDAY DADDY, I LOVE YOU!!!
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